Grandmother Elm

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Finally, some leaves have appeared on my tree!  I think it is an elm tree.

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My grandparents had an elm tree on the northwest corner of their house lot.  Its branches and leaves could almost be touched when looking out the window of the green bedroom, feeling like the leaf canopy of this elm in the above picture.

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…My tree on May 14th…

Knowing trees, I understand the meaning of patience.
~ Hal Borland
(Countryman: A Summary of Belief)

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…Zoë…

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…flag flying outside our fish market today…

Brother #4 went into the hospital for cancer surgery five days ago, and will probably be staying there for another week or so.  The day he went into the hospital I had to go up to my father’s house for a few days to help out with the ancient ones.  Chelsea had some time off so my aunt Em from Maryland came up and she and I tried our best to fill Chelsea’s shoes! It’s good to be back home now and slip into a more “normal” routine again, at least for a little while.

Up at my dad’s it was so quiet without Bernie around, but I was able to get outside for a short walk and take a few pictures.  Later, while sitting on the porch watching birds with Dad, I experimented with the telescopic lens and got a fairly decent picture of a nuthatch (below), if a little blurry!  But next time I think I will use the sports setting with the auto-shoot feature.  It worked so well today with the flag picture this morning (above), which was whipping in the wind.  Enjoy!

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…a nuthatch…

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…pansies for Bernie…

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…branch shadows playing with the roots of my hemlock tree…

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…trillium…

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…garden steps…

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…primrose…

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…life and death on a maple leaf, spider eating a lady bug…

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The Chestnut Tree

…lower branches of Dad’s chestnut tree in the garden, 21 June 2009…

“We lost the chestnut tree.”

My sister delivered the most important news first.  On Sunday we had last talked on our cell phones, and she let me know then that they had lost power at our father’s house, courtesy of the freak Halloween Nor’easter that caught Connecticut by surprise this past weekend, dumping over a foot of heavy wet snow on most of the state.  Dad had a cold, and they had the wood stove going trying to keep him warm.  Then her cell phone went dead and I heard nothing further.

This afternoon, two days later, she finally was able to make it down to her office and call me from work.  They have their power back now, but still no land line or cell phone service.  Beverly says I won’t believe the damage up there, although I am seeing many news reports on TV.  Apparently the state lost more trees in this storm than we did during Hurricane Irene.  With the wood stove they were able to keep Dad’s room at 70°F (21°C), although like many elderly ones, he doesn’t feel comfortable until the temperature is about 80°F (27°C).

When my father was a young man – he is now 89 years old – he found the chestnut sapling in Pennsylvania and brought it home with him, transplanted it in Connecticut soil, and nurtured it to a full-grown, gorgeous tree.  When his short-term memory started disappearing several years ago, he would tell me the story over and over, every time I went up for a visit, which used to be several times a week.  He looked forward to seeing it outside his window every morning, and was very attached to it, his special tree.

In June of 2010 it bloomed!  A lovely scent filled the air.  I’ll never forget it.

We used to decorate it with flower garlands for Midsummer.

And now the Halloween Nor’easter of 2011 has uprooted it.  Beverly reports that when Dad discovered what had happened he simply said, “This is demoralizing.”  I cried when she told me.  The storm also took the tops off several oak trees and the yard and the roads are a mess.  Poor trees.  They’ve taken such a beating this year…

Giving Thanks

“Autumn Landscape” by Vincent van Gogh

We’ve missed our traditional Thanksgiving celebration for the last two years, once due to a death in the family and then because our hostess extraordinaire was recuperating from surgery.  It looks as if all systems are “go” this year, and we’re off to Virginia soon in a caravan of cars for a feast and grand reconnection with Tim’s side of the family.  My daughter and nieces are scheming with me for a surprise for my dearly loved sister-in-law, so there is a lot of excitement in the air.  It will be so good to get a change of scenery and catch up with family happenings!

Even though things have not been easy lately, I’m very thankful for the many blessings I’m still aware of in my life.  The abundant gifts our mother, Earth, offers us…  Family near and far away, friends, old and new ones found recently in the blogosphere…  Artists and writers past and present who have shared their inspired pictures and words, themselves really…  Scientists and naturalists who help me to keep my sense of wonder and awe…  Musicians who bring joy to my heart…  I’m full of memories of special times with people I’ve loved and still miss, and am full of warm thoughts for those I love and have with me now.  I am grateful for all these connections!

Wishing everyone a blessed Thanksgiving!